emacs: simplify point placement in notmuch-hello refresh

notmuch-hello (called also through notmuch-hello-update, bound to '='
by default) tries to find the widget under or following point before
refresh, and put the point back to the widget afterwards. The code has
grown quite complicated, and has at least the following issues:

1) All the individual section functions have to include code to
   support point placement. If there is no such support, point is
   dropped to the search box. Only saved searches and all tags
   sections support point placement.

2) Point placement is based on widget-value. If there are two widgets
   with the same widget-value (for example a saved search with the
   same name as a tag) the point is moved to the earlier one, even if
   point was on the later one.

3) When first entering notmuch-hello notmuch-hello-target is nil, and
   point is dropped to the search box.

Moving the point to the search box is annoying because the user is
required to move the point before being able to enter key bindings.

Simplify the code by removing all point placement based on widgets, as
it does not work properly, and trying to fix that would unnecessarily
complicate the code.

Save current line and column before refresh, and restore them
afterwards. Sometimes, if notmuch-show-empty-saved-searches is nil,
and the refresh adds or removes saved searches from the list, this has
the appearance of moving the point relative to the nearest
widgets. This is a much smaller and less frequent problem than the
ones listed above.